Negative family members

How to Deal with Negative Family Members (4 steps)

Have you dealt with a negative family member who keeps nagging or criticizing you, your work or your life. Well... I have cooked up a magic potion for you to handle these people.

 

It does not matter how negative a person is, if you follow these steps, you cannot fail.

The last one is classical and works every time I use it on someone who is so negative that they don’t even spare themselves with their own negativity. Check out the video.


Leave me a comment and let me know how you handle negative people and what is your magic potion : ) Share it with people who might need some help dealing with negative people in their life.


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FULL VIDEO TRANSCRIPT

4 Steps to Deal with Negative Family Members
“How many times have I told you not to do this?”

“You don't understand! You don't have brains!”

“You are good for nothing.”

“What is this life transformation video you keep watching? How is Murtaza Badri's videos making your life better?”

Sounds familiar? Hahaha. These are negative people who keep yelling and keep telling you negative stuff about you and your life. They install this negative belief in your mind so much that you start doubting yourself, your own beliefs, abilities and skills. Then you give up or rebel - making your life miserable.

We get questions from our viewers on how to deal with negative family members, living with them day in and day out. How to stay positive and keep my mind positive against their pessimistic remarks.

  1. Do Not Acknowledge the Negativity

Whenever they rant and pass on the negativity to you, do not acknowledge. Just because they are saying it 100 times and are a person of authority in your life, it must be true! No!

What you don't want to do is, acknowledge the negative message and link it to the person. Don't tag the person as negative. Maybe the person himself is struggling with life. And the negative comments of the person has nothing to do with you.

Me telling you 100 times you are stupid, doesn't make you stupid.

So don't acknowledge it to be true and do not link it with the person. Because the person may care for you and only the communication is negative.

  1. Address The Behavior

When you want to deal with the negative behavior of the person. Do not attack, that's not the right way.

If the person says something negative, just say that you would appreciate it if there wasn't yelling and if there was a discussion. There's no need for disrespect or negativity here.

  1. Give Them More Love

When you are dealing with negative people, you being Alive and Fearless, have that positive energy and bring it out and show it to your negative people. For a bad word, give a good one, if they hit you, give them a hug.

If you constantly keep doing that, guess what happens. The person is nice, it's just their behavior. With the negative behavior, you give your positive behavior so the negative behavior does not stand a chance. When love hits the person, he will start loving you.

Disclaimer: Do not okay extreme physical, verbal and sexual abuse. Move out and do something about it.

Mindsets clash, different opinions are something we are looking at here.

The more love you give, a different person emerges. Negative people face a scarcity of love. Help that person and make the environment positive.

  1. Give A Nice Smile And Move On

Do not fuel the fire. Move on. Listen, smile, shake hands and go out your way.

I hope these help you deal with so called negative people in your life. Let me know if you like this video, give us a thumbs up and subscribe to our channel.

Stay Alive, stay Fearless. Dream big stay strong.
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About The Author

Murtaza Badri

Murtaza Badri
Speaker, Trainer & Life Coach
Founder, CMD Badri’s life Transformation Academy Pvt.Ltd

A peak performance strategist, relationship expert and a Life Transformational speaker, Murtaza has impacted well over twenty five thousand lives from different backgrounds, age groups, cultures around the world.

He delivers fresh and transformational content in his “Alive & Fearless” programs via the power of Internet, Seminar’s, Coaching programs & Mastermind groups.

He aims to empower people to go beyond what they think they can do, to what they are actually capable of doing, TODAY!

Member of Experts Industry Association, USA.
Murtaza is a M.Sc. in Psychology from Madras University, India. He is a certified Fire Walk Instructorfrom (FIRE) Fire Institute of Research and Education, USA, and a certified Facilitator and Trainer from Carlton Advance Management Institute, USA. He is also a certified NLP Practitioner,Timeline Therapy practitioner and a Hypnosis Therapy Practitioner from ANLP, UK.

His mission is to support individuals find a purpose in life and align their actions to becoming the highest possible being that he/she would love to become.

He believes that every person has the power to be, have & do whatever his/her heart desires. The only gap is a lack of imagination and a belief that he cannot.